Women in Islam
Common Misconceptions
Hijab - Unveiling the Mystery:
Unfortunately, society in the west today too often publicly
exposes women's bodies shamelessly and portrays nudity to
somehow symbolize the expression of a woman's freedom. Where
the most lustful desires of men are fulfilled unchecked -
it is little wonder such an introspection leads many Muslim
women to the decision to wear Hijab-(cover for
the body & head). However generalizations about Islam
and Muslims are numerous in today's media and by extension,
in the minds of many Americans who shape their image of the
world through the media. Veiled Muslim women are typically
unfairly stigmatized. They are regarded on the on hand as
suppressed and oppressed, and on the other, as fanatics and
fundamentalists. Both depictions are grossly wrong and imprecise.
Such portrayals not only misrepresent these women's strong
feelings towards Hijab, but also fail to acknowledge their
courage and the resulting identity their Hijab lends to them.
Amongst such misconceptions is also the belief that any Muslim
woman who wears Hijab is forced to do so. Nothing could be
further from the truth. Indeed the final determination to
wear Hijab is often not easily reached. Days of meditation,
an inevitable fear of consequences and reactions, and ultimately,
plenty of courage weigh heavily in reaching the decision.
Wearing Hijab is a very personal and independent decision,
coming from appreciation of the wisdom underlying God's command,
and a sincere wish to please Him.
Women's Rights in Islam
- To life
- To her own legal identity
- To be educated
- To inherit from her family
- To keep & manage her own possessions & wealth
(including her wages)
- To offer, or agree to, or refuse an offer of marriage
- To write & fulfill legal contracts
- To a vote equal to a man's
- To divorce
- To earn her own way into heaven
- To be provided for by her family until marriage, thereafter
by her husband
- To the same punishment as a man
Dress Code in Islam
As part of submitting ones self to their creator (i.e. Islam),
modesty and a sense of shyness is one of the necessary components
of faith and paramount to achieving righteousness. Our body's
adornments or physical features are a gift, which our creator
has given us, and this gift is a trust that comes with certain
responsibilities. For both Males and females, God has made
their physical features extremely attractive to each other
for the purpose of culmination in physical union, so that
the species con propagate. These physical features, by themselves,
are objects of pleasure and lust. Yet, it is when they are
not manifest that the individual becomes a person. Every soul
that God has made deserves the dignity and respect of a human
being, irrespective of the nature of their physical features.
In this purpose God has created all human beings on a natural
state that has a since of shame, which elevates us above all
other creatures; for there are no Animals that possess a sense
of shame. For the human being, the consequence of exposing
physical features can be very serious and far reaching, both
in this world and in the hereafter. A look at the society
in the west today will reveal some of the consequences. There
is rampant adultery, uncountable rapes, millions of illegitimate
pregnancies, millions of abortions, and millions of illegitimate
children without responsible fathers to care for them. Many
of them will end up a 'street children', joining the gangs
and adding to the ever-increasing violence in the society,
which has already reached epidemic proportions. To save humanity
from destroying themselves it is evident that both men and
women need to cover themselves more properly. The main purpose
of covering the body is to cover the shame and other physical
features so that they remain out of sight of others, to avoid
drawing undue attraction, and to prevent the excitement of
evil desires in others. It is this path of purity and modesty,
which is essential in Islam towards achieving righteousness
and God's pleasure. As the source of guidance on this path,
the following verse in the Qur'an has been revealed:
THE HOLY QUR'AN (24:30-31)
"Tell the believing men to lower
their gaze (refraining from lustful glances) things), And
protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts) that
is purer for them. Surely, God All Aware of what they do.
And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (refraining
from lustful glances) and protect/guard their private parts
and not to show off their adornments except that which is
apparent (for example: face and hands); that they should draw
their clothes over over their bosoms and not display their
beauty"
Understanding the Islamic Dress Code for Women:
Human beings are conditioned by the society in which they
live. When you see a woman scantily dressed and revealing
her physical features, waiting at the road side in the early
evening for someone to approach her for physical favors, what
is the first impression that will come to your mind? Will
it be that this lady is a very religious, pious, and God fearing
woman, seeking the blessings of God?
Again, when you see a nun, modestly dressed in a long robe
and covering her head, not revealing any of her physical features,
what impression will come to your mind? Will it be that this
lady is a sex symbol, waiting for someone to hire her, or
to date her, or to invite her to a dinner and then take her
home? Certainly not! This dress represents her modesty, and
through it she commands the respect of society.
The Extent of Cover:
In medical science there is a saying that 'an ounce of prevention
is better than a pound of cure'. God has made women more beautiful
than men, and has further blessed them with more physical
adornments. Almost every part of the female body is attractive
to a male. Keeping this in mind, the nuns have taken the preventive
measure of wearing a veil over their heads, and covering their
whole body except the face and hands. Not only does God ordain
this preventive shielding for Muslim women of today's time,
but also obedient submissive women of previous nations were
commanded to do the same in former scriptures. Below are some
pictures of women from the People of the Scripures who cover
themselves out of this same modesty and obedience to God which
Islam promotes.
Protrayal of Mary: The Mother of Jesus:
  
Christians Women practicing their Faith:
  
Mother Teresa: A Famous Christian Women who Covers:

THE BIBLE (I Corinthians 11:6)
"For a woman will not veil herself,
then she should cut off her hair; but if it is disgraceful
for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her wear a veil."
Believeing (Muslim) Women who Cover Today:
  
  
In Islam it is also advised for women to cover their head
and body except the face and the hands. God says in the Holy
Qur'an:
THE HOLY QUR'AN (7:26)
"Oh Children of Adam! I have bestowed
raiment upon you to cover your shame."
Reason for covering:
- Obedience (to please All-Mighty God)
Reason for having a dress code:
- Believers would be recognized (identified)
- That they would not be molested (physically or by someone's
eyes)
Benefits for having a dress code:
- Protection
- Modesty
- Self-respect & Identity
- Self-esteem as a person not an object
THE HOLY QUR'AN (33:59)
"O prophet! Tell your wives &
your daughters & the women of the believers to draw their
cloaks all over their bodies, that will be better that they
should be known so as not to be annoyed. And Allah is Ever
Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful"
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